
Is liturgy really the right word? Probably not – a liturgy is “a rite or body of rites prescribed for public worship” (Merriam Webster), so, at best, we’re only part of the way to an actual liturgy. But liturgy is a cool word, and the author chooses the words, and I’m the author.
As I reflect on this Thanksgiving season, I’m overwhelmed by the depth of emotions I’ve experienced in the past year – the highs and lows of planning a wedding, the accomplishment of graduation, the sheer joy of marriage, the intensity of work, the challenges of complex conversations and circumstances, the sadness of losing friends, and the anticipation of what the next year will bring.
This Thanksgiving, I choose gratitude:
- For the covenant of marriage, for my bride, for our adventures thus far, and the adventures yet to come.
- For God-given purpose and equipping that allows me to find joy and meaning in the work set before me.
- For intentional time with family, weekly rhythms, and space for silent togetherness and roaring laughter.
- For men like Kaleb, Isaac, and Zach who care personally and challenge directly, bringing accountability, intentionality, and brotherhood
- For friends like Ahmed, who came into my life for a short time, bringing friendship, wisdom, and joy, and who I will reunite with soon.
- For the life of Christina and the testimony of John and their kids, who point me towards Jesus and the hope of the resurrection.
- For depth of friendship, breadth of experience, and the promise of tomorrow.
- For the mercy of our God, the grace given at the cross, and heirship in the Kingdom of God.
These are my thanksgivings this Thanksgiving. I invite you to make your own changes and join me in this liturgy.